My last post with this title was about laundry, and now I really wish that was all I needed help with!!!
I know that probably only a handful of people read my blog, but my hope in writing this entry is that among that handful there are a few mommies that have that typical first born female living under their roof, because I need some serious HELP!!!
Most people don't believe me when they say that I struggle at home with our oldest little lady. Now, she is a sweetheart, and I do love her very much (this goes without saying); however, lately we have really been struggling with who calls the shots around here. I feel as if I am in a power struggle all day long with her. We are so much alike, and our sin unfortunately is also very much the same.
I am having one of those weeks where I feel like a failure as a mother, and it is as if all of my apologies to her and my "please forgive mommy" pleas don't even matter. Maybe it's because I will be asking for forgiveness one minute and then in the next breathe I am barking an order or speaking harshly to get my point across. I know my own selfish pride is really clouding my thoughts right now. So, if anyone has any insight on the subject or wisdom to share... please let me in on it!
Meanwhile, please pray that there will be peace in our home in the midst of frustration!
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I don't think it's a little girl problem :) Two of the best resources/reference we have come across are two books by Tedd Tripp "Shepherding a Child's Heart" and "Instructing a Child's Heart." Both great and lots of practical help!
I will pray for you and your family. I am sure that this will pass, I know how hard it can be to remember that sometimes. You are a wonderful mother, and I am sure of that even though I do not know you. Good luck and just try to stay calm and be fair with her, it will come in time.
Sorry if that was creepy! I am new to this blogger site and I clicked next blog and arrived here and I felt compelled to comment!
nice blog and everything but maybe you should think about changing letters or background color as my eyes tend to jump out.
(just a friendly suggestion)
bye
I recommend "Growing Kid's God's Way" Biblical Ethics for Parenting. Founders and teachers of the program are Gary and Anne Marie Ezzo.
The program discourages the ever changing concepts of parenting in our society. The biblical precepts taught are liberating and empowering. Be blessed.
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